Christian

For Christian, on his 18th birthday.

I can't wrap my mind around the fact that you are actually an "Adult". Everyone always said I babied you too much, and maybe it was true a little. Of all my children, you have been the one I was so tender-hearted with. I'm so glad you are in the world.

18 Ways You Have Enriched My Life

Because of you, I spent hundreds of hours sitting in a rocking chair.
Because of you, I learned to point a little boy's "you know" downward during diaper changes.
Because of you, I am as schooled as a pediatrician on how to diagnose and treat ear infections.
Because of you, I found my Lullaby Voice and used it A LOT.
Because of you, I know how to be patient toward children whom others call "hyper".
Because of you, I know ALL the words to "Moo, Baa, La La La" and "Chicka Chicka Boom Boom"
Because of you, I know how to make magic potions out of mud, leaves, twigs, and rocks.
Because of you, I know the many valuable uses of Legos and K-Nex.
Because of you, I have learned to care for hermit crabs, ball pythons, and bearded dragons.
Because of you, I realize the power of valuing and supporting a child's reading education.
Because of you, I understand that it's normal if intelligent kids have horrific spelling and handwriting.
Because of you, I have learned how to navigate a kid through middle and High school.
Because of you, I have been exposed to political ideas I wouldn't have thought of before.
Because of you, I have seen kindness, compassion, and empathy in countless ways.
Because of you, I learned to appreciate people for who they are, instead of trying to change them.
Because of you, I have never had to worry about drugs, alcohol or violence the way some moms do.
Because of you, I have helped a little boy grow into a young man.
Because of you, I have led a richer, fuller, happier life.